If you wish to have an effective really first date with the lady you matched with on a dating app potentially its finest not to attempt and recreate Saw with the waitstaff. Its not surprising that he is single and most likely will be for a long time. Unfortunately, thats specifically what u/throwaway000059s date attempted to pull during their very first date. Right off the bat, Im going to agree with commenters and state that her only error was not strolling away when he initially slapped the cash on the table and started describing what he will do. Shame or not, at that point you need to just cut your losses and walk away.But letsstate that, in this scenario, you do somehow make it to the end of the first date … Here she has actually made the very best call. Props to her for sticking up for the waitress after the manipulative abuse her date put the waitress through. It also would have been hard to fault her for slapping him in the face when he stated that you, “Cant continuously be good to these individuals, its not a credible task”.